Preface: Your Husband Probably Isn't Gay
1. Jennifer's Conundrum: Straight Men Who What Sex with Men
2. Tom's Compulsion: Why Would a Straight Man Want To Have Sex with Men?
3. An Irresistible Humiliation: Joel Loves Cuckolding
4. David Wants a Knock on His Back Door: Is He Gay?
5. Adam Must Be the Master: BDSM as an Identity
6. Carlos's Anxiety: Men Who Obsess about Being Gay
7. Sam Won't Cheat on Jillian: What Are the Bisexual Options?
8. Does Jacob Have to Leave Katelyn?: The Gay Husband
9. A Landscape of Identity and Desire: Straight Men Who Seem Gay
10. His Secret Sex Life: Recovering From Betrayal
11. Core Sexual Scripts: Gateway to Understanding Troubling Sexual Behavior
12. Are You What Orgasm?: Kinks That "Look Gay"
13. Your Man Is Gay or Bisexual: Now What?
14. Sex Fantasies and Sex Talk: How Much Do You Need to Know?
15. Writing It Down: A Joint Agreement about Sexual Boundaries
16. Why Else Do Straight Men Have Sex with Men?: A Miscellany
17. Next Steps: What Do I Ask after I Ask, "Is My Husband Gay?"
Appendix: How to Find a Therapist
